,grat·i·tude
noun, the quality of being thankful

Through the ups and downs, good and bad days, let's remain thankful.
It's so easy for us to focus on what we lack that we ignore what we're currently supplied with.
One of my faithful mantras I've embedded into my life: "Train your mind to see the good in every situation" has allowed me to turn negative thoughts into positive confirmations.
Being positive and optimistic are actions. Two actions that sometimes do not come easy to us.
Bad days will never last forever. The season you're currently in may seem like it will never get better, but focus on why you're in this season. Why would God place you here? It has to be a reason and lesson(s) to be learned.

This post was inspired by my very first journal I began when I was in graduate school in 2013. Reading through my entries, I expressed an overwhelming amount of gratitude for my life. Reflecting on the season I was in during that time, I feel a certain compassion for that girl because she was in a space, career, and relationship that she thought wasn't ideal. She longed for more and she prayed faithfully to see her fruits bared. Looking back, knowing what I know now, God was positioning and aligning me for this very moment. From that, I take away to enjoy and be thankful for the current season we're in, no matter how good or bad it may seem.

Let's show gratitude, always.

Cut the distractions.
Truly be alone in your singleness. Tackling any issues that have been caused by serial dating and relationships.

Find comfort in solitude.
It’s ok to be alone.

Take 32 days to evaluate the people in your life.

What are their intentions? What are your intentions? What purpose are they serving to better you? How are you bettering them?

32 days of reflection, stillness, and boldness.
32 days of not compromising who you are to please others.
32 days of removing people from your life without guilt due to attachment, history, or loneliness.

During these 32 days, strive to maintain purposeful, intentional relationships. Eliminate anyone who disrupts your peace and peace of mind.

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Simply stated, simply put...you are ENOUGH.

I am the one.
I am worth the commitment.
I am great.
I know my worth.
I believe in ME 

You are enough. The heart you have is made from pure gold. 
The love you show others and the compassion you have are immeasurable.
Keep seeking God. Let go of your fears and doubts. Have faith God is working this out for your good. 
You are going to be ok.
Be yourself. Stop fearing the unknown.
Know that God is still the same God as He was yesterday, today, and tomorrow.
Don't forget your worth and keep your mind focused on God and His promises. 

Jeremiah 29: 11-12